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Take 4: Your Daily Nervous System Reset

Busy parents do not normally have time for self care but it is essential to stay emotionally regulated in family reactions.

Take 4: Your Daily Nervous System Reset

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Take 4: Your Daily Nervous System Reset

About this resource

How to use it

You don’t need a full spa day to feel more grounded—just five intentional minutes.

Use this worksheet to reset your nervous system, regulate your emotions, and parent from a place of clarity not chaos.

Quick facts

At a glance

  • Free printable PDF
  • From the therapists at Touchstone Therapy Center
  • Print it, or keep it on your phone

How to use it

Step by step

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Step 1: Ground Your Body (1 minute)

  • Sit or stand still.
  • Press your feet into the ground.
  • Take 3–5 slow, deep breaths (inhale through the nose, exhale through the mouth).
  • Name one thing you can see, hear, and feel

Optional Self talk mantra: “I am here. I am safe. I can handle this.”

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Step 2: Notice Your Emotional State (1 minute)

Ask: What am I feeling right now? Where do I feel it in my body?

Try to identify the emotion and recognize it without judgment.

Optional journaling prompt: “Right now I feel… and I need…”

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Step 3: Choose Your Reset Strategy (2 minutes)

Pick one regulation tool:

  • A short walk
  • Shake out arms/body
  • Use a calming scent or lotion
  • Splash cold water on your face
  • Text a friend for a quick check-in
  • Write a “brain dump” list

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Step 4: Set a Gentle Intention

Choose one of the following or write your own:

  • “I don’t need to do it all. I just need to show up.”
  • “I can make space for my emotions and still lead with calm.”
  • “Today, I will choose connection over perfection.”

Download the printable version

Download the printable version

Download the printable version to stick on the fridge or keep on your phone.

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