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Take 4: Your Daily Nervous System Reset
Busy parents do not normally have time for self care but it is essential to stay emotionally regulated in family reactions.

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Take 4: Your Daily Nervous System Reset
About this resource
How to use it
You don’t need a full spa day to feel more grounded—just five intentional minutes.
Use this worksheet to reset your nervous system, regulate your emotions, and parent from a place of clarity not chaos.
Quick facts
At a glance
- Free printable PDF
- From the therapists at Touchstone Therapy Center
- Print it, or keep it on your phone
How to use it
Step by step
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Step 1: Ground Your Body (1 minute)
- Sit or stand still.
- Press your feet into the ground.
- Take 3–5 slow, deep breaths (inhale through the nose, exhale through the mouth).
- Name one thing you can see, hear, and feel
Optional Self talk mantra: “I am here. I am safe. I can handle this.”
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Step 2: Notice Your Emotional State (1 minute)
Ask: What am I feeling right now? Where do I feel it in my body?
Try to identify the emotion and recognize it without judgment.
Optional journaling prompt: “Right now I feel… and I need…”
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Step 3: Choose Your Reset Strategy (2 minutes)
Pick one regulation tool:
- A short walk
- Shake out arms/body
- Use a calming scent or lotion
- Splash cold water on your face
- Text a friend for a quick check-in
- Write a “brain dump” list
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Step 4: Set a Gentle Intention
Choose one of the following or write your own:
- “I don’t need to do it all. I just need to show up.”
- “I can make space for my emotions and still lead with calm.”
- “Today, I will choose connection over perfection.”
Download the printable version
Download the printable version
Download the printable version to stick on the fridge or keep on your phone.
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